"Our children are only the sum of us. What we add up to. Us and
our parents and our grandparents and theirs. All generations."
Set in Sydney, Australia, THE SUM OF US is about a dad (Jack Thompson) and his
grown up son (Russell Crowe). They both have full-time jobs and live together
almost like roommates instead of father and son. Jack loves his son
dearly...even though he's gay!!! Gasp! It's sad that that was
noteworthy in 1994 and even sadder that it's was still noteworthy in
2016.
Anyway, Jack and Russell are very close. Both are single (Jack is a
widower) and THE SUM OF US is the simple slice of life story about the two of
them trying to find a successful relationship. Russell has his eyes set on
a cute local guy, but when the young man sees how relaxed Russell is with his
father, it really messes with his head (since his home life is the opposite) and
for whatever reason this causes him to quit seeing Russell. Russell is
heartbroken. At the same time, Jack meets a woman and they are very
happy...for awhile.
I really enjoyed THE SUM OF US. The performances by the entire cast are
great, the Sydney locations are beautiful and the two main characters are a joy
to watch. I've seen THE SUM OF US a number of times over the years and
always enjoyed it, but if I had things my way: the story would have been
lighter; the flashbacks about the grandmother would have been dropped
completely and replaced with more stuff about both Russell and Jack's
dating adventures; the medical thing would have never happened and the runtime
increased to accommodate the extra dating stories. But that's just my two
cents.
As it is, THE SUM OF US is still a very enjoyable film. Highly
recommended.